When I started in real estate in 2005, I messed up. I’m confessing, so please bear with me…
I wore a suit. Slicked my hair over like I was running for office. In my mind, I just assumed that’s what people expected. I wanted to look, well, realtor-ish. No offense to those real estate professionals who rock the jacket and tie. If that’s you, then go for it. For me, though, it didn’t ring true.
My misdeeds didn’t end with fashion, though. Socially, I screwed up. I felt like I should get in touch with everyone I’d ever known and tell them that I was working in real estate—over and over again. And that they should tell everyone they know about me. Not because I had any great skills or experience at that time, but because I was constantly spamming them with postcards, emails, phonecalls. Like people were just numbers to work. If you were ever on the receiving end of this, I sincerely apologize. It wasn’t the real me. I have no idea what I thinking. Sheesh.
It didn’t take long for that approach to create a conflict deep inside me. I had two choices. I could leave the profession, or I could try doing things differently—authentically. And that’s worked out pretty well. Being me is way easier. No sales pitches, no pressure. I’m laid back and work hard to simply be helpful.
While the real estate side of things was growing, my photography business started taking off in a big way. I found myself with two jobs. People would tell me that I would eventually need to leave one for the other. I didn’t want that. Still don’t.
I like the variety, the challenge. Heck, what I really love most is not feeling like I HAVE to get a certain number of houses sold just to pay the bills. Or that I HAVE to take on a certain number of weddings per year. Takes the pressure off me and my clients. I can focus on being me and trust that word of good work will travel naturally and bring to me more clients who appreciate my approach. Win-win.
December 1st, 2011 at 12:24 pm
Shaun, if you hadnt told me you were a realtor, i would never have looked you up when we bought our home! And honestly, I’m not sure we would have made it through the proccess without you. You were, and are, genuine, caring, fun, and had our best interest at heart. I dont know how many times Chris and I talked about how great our first time home buying experience was because of you and Brad. I am so glad you were part of that experience with us!
December 1st, 2011 at 1:55 pm
Love this post! Best thing is to be you! I think I’m still struggling with the fact that I should run my business as me and not some alter-ego of myself.
Oh, and I tell your name ALL the time to people looking for a stellar real estate agent! When we’re going to buy a new house (or IF), we’ll for sure use you again!